There are a surprising number of similarities in the relationship comparisons for Nick with Raven vs. Nick with Vanessa! Both ladies offer Nick True Love potential, Soulmate potential, plenty of Sexual Heat, and great Companionship potential.
So who would be best for Nick?
I’ll say it again, it’s almost uncanny how very alike both of these relationships are!!
See both their scores at right or below – Raven’s are in the top graphic, Vanessa’s just underneath.
True Love potential – it’s high for both couples.
Soulmate potential for Nick – higher than average with both ladies.
Soulmate potential for Vanessa, higher than average.
Soulmate potential for Raven, average.
Infatuation potential – high with Vanessa, off the charts with Raven!
Sexual Heat – high with both ladies.
Benevolence – high in both directions with both ladies – this is great!
Control – in both cases, it’s the ladies who are in control of Nick. With Vanessa, she is IN CONTROL. With Raven, the power closer to being balanced.
Companionship – both ladies score high with Nick.
Communication – about average for both ladies.
One of the biggest issues with BOTH ladies is Super High CLASH SEVERITY. 8 out of 10 for both! High Clash Severity is tough, and often can become a deal-breaker. This score really reveals how “easy” vs. how “hard” it will be to make a relationship work. 8 out of 10 is REALLY HARD.
Obsession – high for Nick with both ladies. Whatever natural tendency Nick has for being obsessive will be amplified in either of these relationships. Obsession potential is low for both ladies.
Both Duration scores are fairly high – so either of these relationships could be lasting, but it’s highly unlikely that either relationship would be easy, breezy, effortless.
Now – Heartbreak. Nick’s Heartbreak potential is HIGH with both ladies. Vanessa’s likelihood of Heartbreak is even higher than Nick’s – 8 out of 10. Raven’s is low, 2 out of 10.
Really, Nick’s potential for “happily ever after” is about the same with both Raven and Vanessa. So “who is best for Nick?” really isn’t the issue. Both ladies are about the same for him – and this is REALLY RARE!!
Because of this, for me it comes down to what would be the least hurtful choice.
Vanessa would be DEVASTATED if she isn’t chosen – 8 out of 10 Heartbreak potential for her – remember?
Raven would be really disappointed, but not devastated. It would be MUCH easier for her to pick up and resume her normal life than for Vanessa.
Either of these relationships could lead to marriage, but both relationships have a likelihood of incompatibility becoming a major, and even deal-breaking, problem.
Good news though – IF Nick and his final choice marry on a near-perfect MAGIcal day, they would still have a great chance for “Happy and Successful Ever After.”
Many Blessings and Much Love!