Analyzing Taylor and Tom’s relationship in detail has revealed some interesting insights. The first piece of the puzzle is that Taylor and Tom’s relationship was clearly more friendship-based than anything else. As friends there was plenty of benevolence, loyalty and trust as well as some happy companionship. I have no doubt that they liked each other. So what was missing?
In the light of Rob and Chyna’s split – Chyna moved out with their 1-month daughter Dream in December 2016 – let’s take a closer look at Rob and Chyna’s relationship.
Gaga and Taylor had one of the most difficult types of relationships – a type I call “Heaven and Hell.” Heaven and Hell relationships are characterized by True Love, moderate or higher Soulmate potential, high Sexual Heat, and high Clash Severity. Though Gaga and Taylor blamed their long work-related separations for their split, I think it’s likely that their separations kept their relationship alive much longer than it would have otherwise lasted.
Poor Johnny and Amber had true love and real soulmate potential. They had other great relationship potentials too – excellent companionship and greater than average forever sexual attraction. Unfortunately, there were several issues which helped to undermine their relationship: Johnny’s obsession potential is very high with Amber, so any tendency Johnny has for obsession was amplified in this relationship. Another concern is Amber’s high level of control over Johnny. Lastly, Johnny has a much higher than normal heartbreak potential with Amber. Read more
Taylor and Calvin had major heat for each other, along with moderate caring and some real ability to hang out and have fun together. So what happened? First, though they generated lots of heat together, Taylor and Calvin weren’t really that sexually compatible, nor were they wired up to remain attracted to each other forever. Also, Taylor was much less attached to the relationship than Calvin was, yet she was strongly in control of it.
Khloé and Lamar are a sad example of a couple whose wedding date was truly a double-edged sword – their relationship was made even more loving by their wedding date, but they were also destroyed by it. Their potentials for True Love and being Soulmates for each other were only average or a little better, but the bright side of their wedding date was bringing a deep tenderness and sweetness for each other and commitment to their marriage. Lamar’s high level of attachment to Khloé made him try to overcome his addictive tendencies, and Khloé’s high level of control over Lamar probably helped him in his efforts. Read more
Jen and Ben started out with pretty good relationship potentials. They had very high True Love potential, higher than average Soulmate potentials, higher than average Forever Sexual Attraction, higher than average Companionship potential and higher than average Duration. This is all very good, but Jen’s control over Ben is way out of proportion, and Ben’s Heartbreak potential is high for this relationship.Read more
Many Blessings and Much Love!