Do you drag each other down?
Ball and Chain Linkages between 2 charts include Saturn. This is a common linkage, but it is not helpful to relationships. In a Ball and Chain Linkage, the Control person can have a dragging-down effect on the other person. This can happen in a couple of ways:
1.The Control person can seem like a “wet blanket” or “party-pooper,” dampening the other person’s energy and enthusiasm, or
2. The Control person may be needy and continually seeking to tap the other person’s energy in some way. To manage this detrimental linkage, the Control person must make an effort not to criticize or sandbag the other person, or to make too many demands. The other person must be able to let it go when the Control person forgets to sidestep either of these two tendencies.
Ball and Chain Clashes include Saturn too. This is a common clash. The Ball and Chain Clash is like the Ball and Chain Linkage, but stronger and potentially more toxic. Instead of just seeming like a “wet blanket” or “party-pooper,” the Control person may at times seem like a totalitarian dictator who insists on being obeyed. In addition, the Control person may demand inordinate amounts of time and attention from the other person, leaving them feeling constantly depleted. As a clash, this is much harder to work with than as a linkage. The Control person must be reasonable in terms of what they expect from the other person, allowing the other person to have their own life and interests. The other person must be able to say “no” nicely when the Control person’s demands are too great. Both people must always remember that for a relationship to be sustainable, the energy exchange between you must balance itself out over time.
Average number of Ball and Chain Linkages: 1. High number of Ball and Chain Linkages: 3+. Average number of Ball and Chain Clashes: 3. High number of Ball and Chain Clashes: 5+.
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