I have a dreaded Heartbreaker aspect (Venus conjunct Uranus). You probably can’t give me details since you don’t have my birth chart, but what can I do to take the edge off this?
I am 47 and cannot be content in a relationship for the life of me! I’ve done intense inner work and counseling, and I am not unfaithful. I have met many amazing people throughout my life. Do I just go through life with a warning label for anyone interested in getting close to me?
Hi, I wish everyone was this mindful!
There may be specific strengths you can draw upon in your natal chart to remedy this but without seeing it I will stick to a general answer.
1. Planets are highly influential on us but don’t force anything. This is a free will Universe and you have the power to make any choices you want to. NOTHING is predetermined by your natal chart.
2. Planets can express in many ways. They always will express their energies, but you get to use your power of choice to choose exactly how the planetary energies are played out. Venus-Uranus also can mean someone who needs to be with someone unusual, someone who needs excitement in dating, someone who needs to switch things up and avoid romantic ruts.
3. Chiron, not Venus, rules true love, commitment, soulmates, and marriage. You will need to create a relationship that does allow you some space and will create some excitement, but it’s your natal Chiron geometries and aspects that will tell us the most about how you love and how you may sabotage love.
4. Your progressions and transits are also highly influential on you. Progressions are the longest and strongest influences, and they change and evolve over time. You may at some point move into more commitment-centric progressions and that would make commitment much easier and more natural for you.
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