Back when I was single, what I hated most was confusing relationships! You know what I mean: the relationship that seems so good some of the time that you trust it, and then _______ happens or doesn’t happen, and you doubt it. Especially when it cycles from good to bad then good then bad……. Your poor heart goes up and down, over and over again.
Dump the confusion! You can find out now. Is this it, that’s that, end of story? Or is there actually hope for more? Knowledge feels a lot better than uncertainty, drama, and being on a rollercoaster ride. Knowledge helps you decide. Helps you make a plan.
First of all, if the pattern is a loooong one, the reality most likely is, that it is what it is.
But in a new relationship you can’t know the likely outcome… except now you CAN: