Every time I order a calendar I always have a blackout! Is this normal for a person to be so unlucky?
Hi, Unfortunately we ALL have more Blackout Cycles than we’d like! When you consider all 6 crucial dimensions and the various transit to natal aspect combinations which can make up a Blackout aka Heartbreak cycle, there are a lot.
Please view your cycles with a sense of proportion: Everyone’s cycles fluctuate dramatically. You may find that your Star-Timer Calendar covers a particularly good time in your life, or a particularly bad one. Both good and bad cycles can come in cascades. Try not to be too frustrated when you have multiple Blackout Cycles. Because you know about them, you can time your efforts so that Blackout cycles can’t destroy them. If there were no Blackout Cycles, making money and finding true love would be easy for everyone.
Remember that if you don’t natalize something during a bad transit, once the transit is over, it’s over! Natalizing during bad stars is in effect carrying the bad energy forward with you into the future. During Blackout cycles, you are very unlikely to meet your soulmate even if you also have Cinderella cycles, but take heart! Blackout cycles are an inevitable part of everyone’s life.
It may seem depressing to see Blackout cycles on your Star-Timer, but think of it this way: knowing when new meetings would likely lead to heartbreak can save you from wasting months or years on someone that would ultimately be a serious disappointment or worse, and maybe missing your soulmate in the meantime. Don’t panic when you see negative cycles! Everyone has them. You’ve had them many times in the past – you just didn’t know they were there. But even when you were in “blissful” ignorance of their presence, negative cycles were active in your life – these were the times you failed at something despite your best efforts, made a bad impression when trying to make a good one, met a heartbreak instead of a soulmate, or made a major blunder when you were trying to be wise.
Be patient and use your Blackout cycles to get ready for your Cinderella cycles. If you’re hanging onto an old flame, a wishful relationship, or an unfulfilling relationship, release it now! Do whatever grieving you need to do – even if it really hurts. Release what didn’t work so you’re ready for something better. Don’t miss your soulmate during your next Cinderella cycles because you’re still holding onto something going nowhere. Remember – you don’t have to let go of the dream you had for a bad or wishful relationship, you only have to let go of the reality! KEEP YOUR DREAM for when you meet your true soulmate.
Blackout cycles are the perfect time to work on your ability to be in a healthy, loving relationship: analyze old relationships to understand your part of what went wrong, get some therapy if you need it, read self-help books, work on your attitudes, learn better relationship skills. We all have some room for improvement in these areas. Physically, take this time to get in shape so you’ll feel and look your best.
Make the most of your winning days with no Blackout Cycles and then wait patiently for your next window of opportunity whenever possible. Knowing when to advance your interests and when to wait is one of the keys to both success and wisdom. Understanding your own timing allows you to become one of the rare few who really succeed and fulfill your dreams.
Be patient, this time isn’t wasted. Use your Blackout cycles to prepare for your Golden and Cinderella cycles. You can work on plans, strategies, projects of all kinds, work on yourself, learn new skills, etc. but with a GIANT caveat: DO NOT pull the trigger or set anything in motion until you have THOROUGHLY revisited the work you did during the Blackout cycle, and do not do this until you are at least 1 day past the Blackout cycle.
One effect of Blackout Cycles is that they will make you more error-prone both in your judgment, your computations, and in your speaking and writing. You WILL find errors in your logic or work and it is crucial that you find ALL errors before you move ahead.
Love, Helena
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