“If on your compatibility report you have a lot of sexual heat and minimal sexual harmony how does that play out in real life? Is it a situation where both parties are really caught in the moment and turned on and then the act is really disappointing?”
Your Sexual Heat score reflects how hot your relationship can be for as long as the Heat linkages last. Unfortunately, the hottest sexual linkages ALWAYS burn out… As long as the heat remains super-hot, the lack of harmony won’t be too obvious.
Your Sexual Harmony score reflects how sexually compatible you are when each of you is being totally natural, not making any adjustments to please the other person.
Smokin’ hot chemistry can obscure the lack of basic harmony while it lasts. Once the heat burns away (due to marriage or due to time, depends which temporary sexual linkages you have) the lack of heat + the lack of harmony will be really felt between you.
Also, things will also depend on your Forever (Sexual) Attraction score. Get a Love Report with all 3 sexual scores with an Instant Complete Love Report.