By Magi Helena “America’s #1 Astrologer”
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So what are the keys to understanding love compatibility charts? Is it zodiac signs or sign compatibility? Can an Earth Sign love Air Signs? Can Pisces get along with Leo? What about Scorpio with Aries?
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There are LOTS of things to know about love compatibility, let’s start with the basics:
The clearest and most accurate answers are found in the CAC (Combined Alignment Chart.) CAC’s compare one person’s birth chart with the other person’s chart. CACs utilize all 6 dimensions of astrology needed for complete answers: Geocentric Longitudes (the single dimension most astrology uses) PLUS 5 MORE CRUCIAL DIMENSIONS, all of which are needed to understand your relationship: Geocentric Declinations, Geocentric Zodiac 7, Heliocentric Longitudes, Heliocentric Latitudes and Helio Zodiac 7. All these dimensions are factored into my Instant Complete Relationship Report. This report will discuss your potential for a successful relationship in-depth – it includes approx. 35 pages of detailed info about your unique relationship. Want to calculate it yourself? Click the DIY link in this article below.
The arrow that points to your Soulmate is the planet Chiron! Excerpt from my Instant Complete Relationship Report: “Soulmate Linkages (AKA Romantic Super-Linkages) between two charts are signs of true love potential. Soulmate Linkages always include Chiron. As with Soulmate Geometries, couples who form multiple romantic super-linkages are inclined to marry – the more romantic super-linkages, the greater the chance of marriage.
One example of a Soulmate Linkage is the Magical Linkage
“The most Magical of all linkages, the Magical Linkage helps to unite a couple and make them want to marry. This linkage is one of the three most commonly-found linkages in married couples and is one of the most romantic linkages too. Couples with this linkage often feel that they are destined to be together, and this linkage helps to provide longevity to the relationship. It is also a Golden Success linkage which helps to bring money and success. This linkage can have an almost mystical ability to bring blessings to the couple and is an excellent indicator of true love potential.” Do you have the Magical Linkage? Find out instantly. Get 40% off with code: Blog40 Comes with my 100% Money-Back Guarantee!
Heartbreak Clashes include various clashes between Saturn and Chiron. Excerpt from my report: “Heartbreak Clashes are extremely common. In each Heartbreak Clash, the Heartbreaker is the likely person to break the other person’s heart, though Heartbreak Clashes do occasionally work in reverse. Heartbreak Clashes are insidious – they begin with powerful attraction and bind a couple strongly, especially the person most likely to get their heart broken. It makes sense that Heartbreak Clashes work this way – if they didn’t draw you in in the first place, your heart couldn’t get broken.
“High numbers of these clashes can hold a couple together, sometimes for years, before these clashes ultimately break one or both of their hearts. Sometimes there are many, smaller heartbreaks along the way. This seems to happen even when the couple truly loves each other and the Heartbreaker is a good person and has no intention of doing harm.” Find out your Heartbreak Potential instantly. Get 40% off with code: Blog40 Comes with my 100% Money-Back Guarantee!
YES!!! My Instant Complete Relationship Report gives detailed info about your sexual heat and compatibility, now and in the future. Report excerpt: “Sexual Linkages and Clashes between charts vary widely in their flavor, effects and duration. Some Sexual Linkages last forever, some burn out inevitably, some last forever UNLESS a couple marries, in which case they disappear overnight!
“When sexual attraction is especially high, people are often convinced they are in love, even if they are not. Sexual Linkages indicate sexual potential together but will not guarantee sexual interest unless both of you are also each other’s physical ‘type,’ or close enough to it.
“The hottest Sexual Linkages really are a double-edged sword. They are the most exciting while they last, but when they’re gone, they’re gone, and unless you have forever Sexual Linkages you can be left with no sexual attraction at all.
One example of a Sexual Linkage:
“The Ultimate Sexual Linkage can create nearly irresistible attraction. It can compel the two of you to find some way to get together – even if there are serious obstacles. The chemistry this linkage creates is so powerful that it can actually blind one or both of you to important facts, or even tempt you to abandon your values.
“This is an ‘Only Before Marriage’ Sexual Linkage since it burns out completely and forever if the two of you marry, BUT it is a lifelong Sexual Linkage if you never marry. After marriage, when an ‘Only Before Marriage’” Sexual Linkage burns out, the partners wonder – WHAT HAPPENED? They may even begin to unfairly blame each other for the loss of attraction. This linkage can be a sign of a super-hot affair – it often but not always indicates a relationship that will not last.
“The hottest Sexual Linkages really are a double-edged sword. They are the most exciting while they last, but when they’re gone, they’re gone, and unless you have forever Sexual Linkages you can be left with no sexual attraction at all. The Ultimate Sexual Linkage and other ‘Only Before Marriage’ Sexual Linkages are the most commonly found linkages in extramarital affairs.”
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Love is NOT all you need to be a good match, you need compatibility too! Report excerpt: “Compatibility creates the easy, free-flowing, naturally harmonious relationship most people want to be in. Compatibility builds happiness and security. Compatible, happy relationships give more than they take and help to make every part of your life better.
“While almost everyone wants the basis of their relationship to be true love and soulmate potential, it is compatibility more than anything else that creates the ability to be happy and content together over time. For a relationship to work over the long haul, you must have true love AND the absence of, or at least the ability to work with, toxic clashes. Many toxic clashes can create too much drama and misery and drain your energy for other things. If you have too many days of ‘trying to work on it,’ and not enough days of easy, relaxed harmony, the relationship probably isn’t very beneficial for you.
My Instant Complete Relationship report measures your companionship and communication potentials along with 19 KEY compatibility clashes which indicate your conflict potential. Each significant clash in your report will also include suggestions for the best strategies for working with it. “The Control person in each clash will be indicated if this is significant. One or both of you may be the Control person in each group of clashes. It is typically the Control person who exerts the greatest control in this clash, and who has the greatest ability to prevent the clash from becoming an issue, or even a deal-breaker.
Here are a couple of examples of Compatibility Clashes:
“Nuclear Clashes include Jupiter clashes with Saturn. Nuclear Clashes represent major differences between the couple that can never be resolved. Often these differences are in fundamental areas that are integral to the way each person lives their lives. Couples with numerous Nuclear Clashes often don’t stay together for long – these key differences just don’t let the relationship take root and grow. The only strategy for managing Nuclear Clashes is to ‘agree to disagree,’ to ‘live and let live,’ or to lead partially separate lives in the areas where you differ. Neither of you will EVER be able to convert the other, though the Control person has the hardest time accepting this. When there are a number of Nuclear Clashes, you need to be sure that the good in the relationship is wonderful enough to compensate you for the compromises and adjustments you will need to make to stay together. The number of Nuclear Clashes does not indicate the number of differences between you, but the more Nuclear Clashes there are, the more difficult the differences which do exist will be to accept and work with. The Nuclear Clash is one of the most serious of all clashes, and multiple Nuclear Clashes can often be relationship deal-breakers. While Nuclear Clashes are huge indicators of problem areas within the relationship, they do not exert much influence on how the couple will behave during disagreements.
Hurt Feelings Clash
“Hurt Feelings Clashes include Saturn and certain Saturn Midpoints. This difficult clash creates real compatibility challenges. Over time, the Control person may build up resentments toward the other person. Then, the Control person may say things which aren’t consciously intended to hurt the other person, but do, often deeply. What can hurt even more is the reluctance or downright refusal of the Control person to apologize. With this clash, the Control person believes that since no harm was consciously intended, no harm was done, and that the other person is simply being oversensitive. Strategies for dealing with this clash: 1. The Control person must learn to acknowledge and constructively release resentments toward the other person. 2. The Control person must learn to apologize for the results of their comments and try to avoid saying similar things in the future, and 3. the other person must try to let such comments go by without taking them too personally or taking them in too deeply. If not managed with care by both partners, Hurt Feelings Clashes, especially multiple Hurt Feelings Clashes, can become deal-breakers.”
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A SUPER important factor in understanding your relationship is the number and balance of Captivations. They affect your level of attachment to each other and also the balance of power between you. Captivations are formed by Saturn and certain Saturn midpoints in linkages or clashes to certain vulnerable planets, like Chiron and Vesta.
Excerpt: “Captivations create attachment, but this attachment can be happy and healthy, or can be miserable and crazy-making. Captivations indicate a hold or bond, and they function like glue to hold people together.
“Captivations can create incredibly powerful attachments but they do not indicate soulmate potential or the potential for happiness together. Captivations can be a very good thing if you truly love each other (indicated by Soulmate Geometry, Soulmate Linkages and/or Cinderella Linkages) if you are good for each other, AND if the number of Captivations is relatively balanced between you. If so, Captivations can be good: they can help hold your relationship together during difficult times. Captivations can be very bad if they hold a bad relationship together, and can even in extreme cases have highly negative results.
“If the total number of Captivations is in the normal range, this would indicate a relationship with a normal amount of glue holding it together. If the total number of Captivations is unusually high, this relationship might be very difficult to leave even if it is unsatisfying or even highly toxic.
“Captivations also indicate the relative balance of power and control in a relationship. When Captivations are relatively balanced, the power and control in the relationship is relatively balanced and evenly shared. The ratio between the Captivations in which each of you is the Control person is the primary determinant of the overall balance of power and control in your relationship. The greater the difference between these two numbers, the more power the Control person has over the other person. This ratio is really only significant if the ratio is out of balance by 20% or more. A person who has a disproportionate number of Captivations over the other person would be considered the “Controller” of the relationship, as most of the power and control is in their hands. If Captivations are more or less in balance, then neither of you is the Controller.
“If you are the Controller in your relationship, you must be very wise and unselfish in dealing with the other person. The other person probably has an enormous attachment to you, they may feel desperately that you are “the one” for them, and they may even be obsessed with you if they tend toward obsession and have numerous obsession linkages with you. If the feelings are not mutual, be kind and gently let the other person go so they can find someone who can love them mutually. If they are highly Captivated, it may take time and patience to get them to disengage from the relationship.
“If the other person is the Controller in your relationship, they are likely to have significant power over you. You may believe that you are in love with the Controller and that the Controller is your soulmate – you may even ignore overwhelming evidence to the contrary. If the Controller doesn’t truly love you and/or treats you badly, PLEASE pay attention to this – don’t rationalize it away. You owe it to yourself to be honest with yourself and to take good care of yourself. Captivations are only one facet of a relationship, but they are significant in that they can distort the way you see the relationship. If you are in a relationship that has your family and close friends baffled, or if you suspect the relationship isn’t good for you, please reassess things in the light of this information and take whatever action is necessary for your survival and well-being. You deserve true mutual love and happiness, and you can only find it when you are not trying to “make it work” with someone who is truly bad for you.
“Another potential issue with an imbalance of power is this: The Controller often has the ability to drain the other person energetically. It’s almost as it the Controller can just plug in and recharge their own batteries from the other person’s energy any time they want. So, being in a relationship with someone who is your Controller can be, on top of other things, very emotionally and even physically draining.
“Emotional Captivations are formed when Captivations are combined with Romantic Linkages and Obsession Linkages in certain proportions. Emotional Captivations introduce an added emotional element or added vulnerability.
“Sexual Captivations are formed when Captivations are combined with “Only Before Marriage” Sexual Linkages and Obsession Linkages in certain proportions. Sexual Captivations create extreme sexual intensity and can even create destructive obsessions.”
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You may have noticed we haven’t talked about zodiac sign compatibility. We haven’t talked about horoscope love. We haven’t talked about zodiac signs / sun signs at all: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, or Pisces. We haven’t talked about Water signs or the other elements Earth, Air or Fire. We haven’t talked about Houses, or Rising Signs, the Ascendant and Descendant in love. Curious about why?
It’s because these things don’t work well enough. ENOUGH is the keyword! These astrology techniques work well enough to play with, but if you need to make a real decision, you need info that is truly ACCURATE, not just “sorta-kinda true.” Signs and houses are fun, but for the real info, use what REALLY works, what has been proven in 35 years of statistical research. All of the info in my Love Reports uses research-proven principles! You can see from the examples above just how VERY specific this info is!
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There is really no zodiac sign or other simple advice to understand astrology love compatibility. You’re not the same as the other 600 million or so people who share your Sun Sign, you are unique. So is your crush. Forget generalities if you really want to know. You can get all the info you need to make an informed decision in my Instant Complete Relationship Report or you can DIY it with the instructions in the link.
Either way, I wish you Happily Ever After LOVE!
About Magi Helena
Magi Helena’s “Your Daily Astrology” column in syndicated to hundreds of newspapers throughout the United States and internationally, with a daily readership in the millions. Helena was voted Best Los Angeles Astrologer in 2019. She is one of only two Magi Astrologers, and the only woman, to have been awarded the highest certification in Magi Astrology. Helena is the inventor of Star-Timer® Calendars and Love-Stars® Compatibility Reports and is the author of two books: Build Your Dream Life, and How To Sing the Uni-Verse.