Hurt Feelings Clashes include Saturn and certain Saturn Midpoints. This difficult clash creates real compatibility challenges.
In each of these clashes, one person is the Control person. Over time, the Control person may build up resentments toward the other person. Then, the Control person may say things that aren’t consciously intended to hurt the other person but do, often deeply. What can hurt even more is the reluctance or downright refusal of the Control person to apologize. With this clash, the Control person believes that since no harm was consciously intended, no harm was done and that the other person is simply being oversensitive.
Strategies for dealing with this clash: 1. The Control person must learn to acknowledge and constructively release resentments toward the other person. 2. The Control person must learn to apologize for the results of their comments and try to avoid saying similar things in the future, AND 3. the other person must try to let such comments go by without taking them too personally or taking them in too deeply. If not managed with care by both partners, Hurt Feelings Clashes, especially multiple Hurt Feelings Clashes, can become deal-breakers.
Average number of Hurt Feelings Clashes: 3. High number of Hurt Feelings Clashes: 5+.
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